Wisdom of a Little Girl
My friends' 20-month-old daughter has recently been learning how to use the small wooden stool in the kitchen. For us, it's just a little boost to get to the highest shelves, but for her, it nearly doubles her effective reach so that she can grab grapes out of the bowl on the table or get into any variety of things she shouldn't be into. I was doing dishes at the sink the other day, when she pulled the stool over to the sink and placed it between my feet and the counter. Then she climbed up on it, right in front of me, stuck her hands in the sink and started washing dishes with me. She's a very smart little girl. So, we cleaned the rest of the dishes together, taking turns with the sponge and me helping more with anything that required serious scrubbing.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, "Two people can accomplish more than twice as much as one; they get a better return for their labor. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble." (NLV)
This little girl was teaching me something very important about the value of doing things together. Now, we certainly didn't accomplish more dish washing together than I would have done alone, nor did we do it faster or even better. Although, one cup covered in smiley faces did get washed a half dozen times! But we did accomplish something MORE together. We learned about each other, about sharing, about working, about being a team and about depending on one another. For those moments, we shared our lives together on equal ground. We were both just a couple of dishwashers, cleaning up the mess we had made earlier.

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Can I steal this illustration?
And we had the over for dinner last night and she never once volunteered to do dishes! Not even a spoon. Ingrate.
Jared,
You have already learned one of the biggest lessons of parenting:
Learning to hear God through your children.
So, maybe she isn't yours, but often times adults don't realize they can learn some of the most important lessons through interacting with God's most innocent creation: The Child
Mandie,
I'm not sure you'd call her innocent if you could see her take a grape from the bowl in the middle of the table by pulling the bowl towards her then push the bowl back to the center so that it looks like it never moved. I hope her parents don't read this! And what lesson should I learn from that?
Paul,
If you had provided the little girl with a stool she would have gladly done your dishes. Tsk! Tsk! Not providing the right tools for the job but expecting results.
that makes me want to take that photograph. -great grandma rachel
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